You can sue for a breach of promise to marry
The Nigerian culture takes marriage really serious;
many young adults consider settling down as quite important and enter
relationships with the intention of spending time with this partner. Such relationships
could include casual flings, having an exclusive dating relationship or even
had led to an engagement with a promise to marry. However, sometimes these
relationships don’t work out and parties stop dating or being friends all
together.
many young adults consider settling down as quite important and enter
relationships with the intention of spending time with this partner. Such relationships
could include casual flings, having an exclusive dating relationship or even
had led to an engagement with a promise to marry. However, sometimes these
relationships don’t work out and parties stop dating or being friends all
together.
What if a heart break could entitle you to financial
damages, will you act on it? So you met a great guy that swept you off your
feet, you had envisioned life with your man and maybe he had even proposed to
you before your friends and family. You gave him your world and you had both
agreed to get married but at the end of the day he ditched you for someone
else. The hurt sometimes can only be best imagined. However, did you know that
you may be entitled to damages for a breach of contract to marry?
damages, will you act on it? So you met a great guy that swept you off your
feet, you had envisioned life with your man and maybe he had even proposed to
you before your friends and family. You gave him your world and you had both
agreed to get married but at the end of the day he ditched you for someone
else. The hurt sometimes can only be best imagined. However, did you know that
you may be entitled to damages for a breach of contract to marry?
Nigerian law states that an agreement to
enter into a marriage should leave nobody in doubt as to the real intention of
the parties to enter into a marriage. A mere convivial or romantic relationship
without more is not enough for a court to found an agreement to marry. In
essence, there must have been a promise to marry. A promise to marry can be a
“betrothal”, an “engagement to be married” also termed “agreement to marry”. Such
agreement need not also be formal such as a written agreement as it may also be
oral.
enter into a marriage should leave nobody in doubt as to the real intention of
the parties to enter into a marriage. A mere convivial or romantic relationship
without more is not enough for a court to found an agreement to marry. In
essence, there must have been a promise to marry. A promise to marry can be a
“betrothal”, an “engagement to be married” also termed “agreement to marry”. Such
agreement need not also be formal such as a written agreement as it may also be
oral.
For the purpose of proving a claim, two
elements are necessary to constitute a breach of agreement or promise of
marriage. First, the party jilted must prove to the satisfaction of the court
that there was in fact a promise of marriage under the Matrimonial Causes Act,
1990, or under Islamic Law or under Customary Law, on the part of the other
sex. Second, the party reneging has really, and as a matter of fact, failed or
refused to keep to the agreement of marriage.
elements are necessary to constitute a breach of agreement or promise of
marriage. First, the party jilted must prove to the satisfaction of the court
that there was in fact a promise of marriage under the Matrimonial Causes Act,
1990, or under Islamic Law or under Customary Law, on the part of the other
sex. Second, the party reneging has really, and as a matter of fact, failed or
refused to keep to the agreement of marriage.
In proving that there was a breach of
promise to marry, the claim must be corroborated by another witness or other
material evidence such as correspondences and communications, as the law specifically
states corroboration is required in actions of breach of promise of marriage. The
reliefs you can seek in court shall however be limited to damages as the court cannot
compel anyone to marry another. Extent of damages for such breach is however at
the discretion of the court.
promise to marry, the claim must be corroborated by another witness or other
material evidence such as correspondences and communications, as the law specifically
states corroboration is required in actions of breach of promise of marriage. The
reliefs you can seek in court shall however be limited to damages as the court cannot
compel anyone to marry another. Extent of damages for such breach is however at
the discretion of the court.
Damages awarded by courts fall under the
following categories: general damages e.g. compensation for the loss of
consortium of the other party; injured feelings, wounded pride, etc ; special
damages affecting property e.g for money spent or financial loss sustained by
the plaintiff as a direct result of the defendant’s breach of the promise to
marry; recovery of the engagement ring and presents. An interesting thing to
note is that damages could also be claimed against a third party who induced
the breach.
following categories: general damages e.g. compensation for the loss of
consortium of the other party; injured feelings, wounded pride, etc ; special
damages affecting property e.g for money spent or financial loss sustained by
the plaintiff as a direct result of the defendant’s breach of the promise to
marry; recovery of the engagement ring and presents. An interesting thing to
note is that damages could also be claimed against a third party who induced
the breach.
It is important to note that not everyone
is bound by a breach of promise to marry. The other party may also have valid
reasons of defences for not carrying out the obligation. Such may include false
representation, or fraudulent concealment in material particulars, of the
pecuniary circumstances or previous life of the claimant. The bad character of
the claimant will also excuse the defendant from performance of the contract,
unless he or she was aware of the plaintiff’s character before making the
promise.
is bound by a breach of promise to marry. The other party may also have valid
reasons of defences for not carrying out the obligation. Such may include false
representation, or fraudulent concealment in material particulars, of the
pecuniary circumstances or previous life of the claimant. The bad character of
the claimant will also excuse the defendant from performance of the contract,
unless he or she was aware of the plaintiff’s character before making the
promise.
Physical or mental incapacity may give rise
to a right to terminate the engagement in limited circumstances. No disease or
infirmity short of absolute incapacity on the part of the defendant will avail
him or her, however, even if it is proved that the performance of marital
duties would endanger his or her life. The fact that the defendant honestly and
reasonably believed the plaintiff to be unfit to marry is no defence if the
plaintiff was in fact fit. Also, it is a defence to an action for breach of
promise that the plaintiff has released or discharged the defendant from
performance before any breach of the contract occurs. The release may be
express or implied.
to a right to terminate the engagement in limited circumstances. No disease or
infirmity short of absolute incapacity on the part of the defendant will avail
him or her, however, even if it is proved that the performance of marital
duties would endanger his or her life. The fact that the defendant honestly and
reasonably believed the plaintiff to be unfit to marry is no defence if the
plaintiff was in fact fit. Also, it is a defence to an action for breach of
promise that the plaintiff has released or discharged the defendant from
performance before any breach of the contract occurs. The release may be
express or implied.
What do you think, would you sue an ex for
a breach of promise to marry?
a breach of promise to marry?
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